When it comes to intimacy, communication is hot—and we don’t just mean regular conversations. Talking dirty in bed can add a whole new layer of excitement to your connection, build confidence, and even spice up your relationship in ways words alone can’t truly capture. But how do you get started without feeling awkward or unsure? That’s exactly what we’re covering today.
Whether you're new to dirty talk or looking to take your skills to the next level, these five actionable tips (plus unique, fresh examples you won’t find anywhere else) will help you master the art of sensual dialogue and ignite the chemistry in your relationship.
My name is Savita Sharma, and I’m a sex expert and Tantra practitioner. I create articles about great sex, legendary pleasure, Tantra, and passionate relationships. If these topics excite you, subscribe to website newsletter stay updated!
My Journey with Dirty Talk
When I was younger, I wasn’t into talking dirty—or talking in bed at all. Once things got heated, the only sounds you’d hear from me were an occasional moan or giggle.
Everything changed in my late 20s when I met a talkative lover. Our casual six-month relationship taught me a lot about dirty talk. He made it feel natural and enjoyable, even guiding me with simple phrases to say. Slowly, I began to love dirty talk, both speaking and hearing it.
Top 5 Tips for Talking Dirty
1. Express What You Want
Telling your partner what you desire can be a huge turn-on. It’s authentic, exciting, and helps them give you pleasure. Examples include:
- "I want to ravish you!"
- "I can’t wait to taste you on my lips."
- "I want you inside of me."
- "I want you to spank my bum while you’re putting that big hard c*ck of yours inside of my p*ssy."
2. Share Your Plans
Before doing something, tell your partner what you’re about to do. This builds anticipation and excitement. For example:
- "I’m going to suck you and lick you until you’re ready to explode."
- "Relax and let me take care of you."
- "I’m going to tease you until you can’t take it any longer."
3. Describe What You’re Feeling
Talk about what you feel in the moment. Be descriptive to enhance the experience:
- "This feels so fucking amazing!"
- "I’m dripping wet for you!"
- "Your cock feels so incredibly good inside of me."
- "I love it when you squeeze your pussy around me like that."
4. Compliment Your Partner
Let them know what’s sexy and delicious about them, and what you love as their lover:
- "You taste so good, baby!"
- "You fuck me so well!"
- "You look so sexy right now."
- "I love the sounds you’re making!"
5. Customize Dirty Talk for Your Partner
Use words, expressions, or activities that turn your partner on. Pay attention to their preferences, or ask them about fantasies or phrases they’d love to hear in bed.
Bonus Tip
Speak in a way that’s tailored to your partner’s desires. If you’re unsure what they like, listen to them talk about your sex life or have an open conversation about fantasies and preferences.
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