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The official
list compiled with the help of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists and Judith Seifer, Ph.D., R.N. President of the
American Association of Sex Education. |
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1) Small of the Neck

Most women find light tongue flicks on this area highly sensual, however,
don't get carried away and give hickeys! Remember, we're adults, not
highschoolers! |
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2) Scalp
Ever wonder why SO many women seem to wash their hair? And why does your
woman's visit to the Hairdresser seem to send her into tizzies when she
describes the simple experience of getting her hair washed and how good
the jets feel on her scalp? Now you have the answer! Massaging the scalp
or scratching it even ever so lightly, according to scientists, alleviates
stress and also happens to have a built in bonus: Endorphins are released
(pleasure hormones). So the next time your woman tells you she is too
stressed out to relax, play hairdresser. You'll be glad you did!

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3) Outside of the Ear Lobe
Okay, I can hear you moaning already. But we already knew that one. No, I
do not mean the WHOLE ear or whole earlobe. With the various protective
substances and complexities of the inner ear area, most see to forget
hundreds of sensitive nerve endings and blood vessels reside in the
outside of the ear lobe. Bonus tip: Instead of blowing or doing the old
tongue in the ear trick, Use your fingertip and lightly stoke it. It may
work wonders!

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4) Inside of the Arm
This is an area, according to many sex therapist and counsellors, that
seems to be overlooked entirely in foreplay as well as in cuddling with
loved ones. The trick here is to LIGHTLY run either your nails or the pads
of your fingertips across the area of skin halfway between her elbow and
wrist. According to those who have enjoyed this experience, it feels
highly similar to someone tickling your palms lightly as well as producing
warm sensations in other parts of the body. |
5) Sacrum

The Sacrum, known to some as the "Bermuda Triangle of Lust" is
the area found roughly above the crease of the buttocks near the base of
the spine. Do not apply hard pressure. It will feel as if you are trying
to give a spinal without anesthesia. Massage it lightly with a thumb and
ask her how much pressure to add. |
6) Inner Thigh
Now don't go totally wild in this area. Too much of a good thing can ruin
the impact. Lightly track a small to medium sized triangle from around 2-3
inches below the crotch to the inside of the knee and back up again.
Hopefully, by the time you are ready to move you hands a bit higher, she
will be ready as well. |
7) Behind the Knee
One of the top totally neglected erotic areas on women. It has some of the
softest, thinnest, and sensitive skin on the exposed body. |
8) Achilles Tendon

This is a HIGHLY sensitive spot. Do NOT immediately go here soon after
foreplay. Save this spot for much further along. Softly stroke just below
the ankle bone (your choice inside or out) and then work slowly up toward
the back of her knee. |
9) Breasts

Totally obvious choice, and hence the reason it was left for last.
Everyone and their grandmother knows that the breasts are highly erotic,
however, when starting to move into this area, ignore the nipples. Some
other techniques you can use is to use all five fingers to stroke each
breast in different directions, and, instead of working your way from
ground zero, begin starting at the breastbone or just about underneath the
arm and slowly, slowly work your way toward the nipples. But, just stop
short of it. |
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