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AC/DC - Bisexual.

ACTIVE - The aggressive sexual partner.

AGATE - A small penis.

ANALINGUS - Kissing, licking and penetration of the anus by the tongue.

ANDROGYNOUS / ANDROGYNY - One who has the quality of simultaneously exhibiting masculine and feminine characters.

ANGEL - Male who pays for sexual acts.

ANUS - The opening of the rectum.

AROUND THE WORLD - The act of kissing the entire body as a prelude to sex.

ASEXUAL - Absence of sexual feeling.

ASS - The buttocks.

ASSHOLE - The anus.

AUNTIE - An aging male homosexual.

AUTO-EROTICISM - Masturbation.

AUTO-FELLATIO - Performing fellatio on ones own penis.

AUTO-SADISM - An act whereby one inflicts pain on oneself.

AUXILIARY INTERCOURSE - Sexual climax achieved by moving the erect penis back and forth in the armpit.

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BACK SCUTTLE - Perform anal intercourse.

BAG - The scrotum.

BACK YARD - The buttocks.

BALL - A wild sex activity.

BALLS - The testicles.

BANANA - The penis.

BARE-ASSED - Nude.

BASKET - The bulge made by male sex organs in jeans, briefs and trunks.

BASKET SHOPPING - Observing the male genitalia through clothing.

BEAT OFF - Masturbation.

BEEFCAKE - Male possessing sex appeal.

BENT STICK - An un-erectable penis.

BI-GENDERED - One who switches between masculine and feminine gender roles from time to time.

BI-PHOBIA - The oppression or mistreatment of Bisexuals, especially by lesbians and gay men.

BI-SEXUAL - One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions to members of both the same and the other sex, or who identify as members of the bisexual community. Derogatory terms include the same terms as are applied to lesbians and gay men. Derogatory terms from lesbians, gay men, and some heterosexuals: fence sitter, AC/DC, double-gaited, confused.

BITCH - A loose woman or feminine male.

BLIND - An uncircumcised penis.

BLOW - To perform oral intercourse.

BLOW JOB - The act of oral intercourse.

BLUE BALLS - Severe need to experience sexual orgasm.

BLUE MOVIES - Porno movies.

BOOBS - Female breast.

BONKERS - Female breast.

BOY - 1. A young male. 2. Colloquial term for masculine. Often used to specify gender of clothes. ["My boy clothes."] Boy has often been used as a condescending term for a man (especially a man of color), and is therefore distasteful to many people.

BRING OFF - Ejaculation in the male.

BRONCO - Young male who is difficult to restrain during intercourse.

BROWN - To perform anal intercourse.

BROWNIE QUEEN - Passive partner in anal intercourse.

BUGGER - To perform anal intercourse.

BULL-DYKE - A masculine female homosexual.

BUMMER - Active partner in anal sex.

BUNS - The buttocks.

BUTCH - 1. Masculine or macho dressed and behavior, regardless of sex or gender identity. 2. A sub-identity of lesbian or gay, based on masculine or macho dressed and behavior.

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CAMP - To joke or playact exaggerated masculine or feminine behaviors for others' entertainment. Especially men exhibiting exaggerated feminine behaviors. Also to camp it up.

CAN - The buttocks.

CANDY MAKER - A woman or man who masturbates a male and then consumes the ejaculated semen.

CASTRATION - Render the testicles inoperable by surgery.

CHANGE YOUR LUCK - To engage in a gay sex act for the first time.

CHASTE - To engage in the most origin sexual activities.

CHEAT- To be unfaithful to one's regular sex partner.

CHEEKS - Fleshy portions of buttocks.

CHERRY - One who is still a virgin.

CHICKEN - A young, attractive male.

CIRCUMCISION - Surgical removal of the foreskin of the penis.

CLAP - Gonorrhea or other venereal disease.

CLIMAX - To achieve the high point of sexual activity.  Often refers to ejaculation by the male.

CLIT - The clitoris.

CLITORIS - Anatomical structure of the female genitalia.

CLOSET QUEEN - A male homosexual who hides his desires for other men.

COCK - The penis.

COCKSUCKER - One who performs oral intercourse on the penis.

COCKTEASER - One who excites a male without carrying on to actual sexual relations.

COITUS - Sexual intercourse.

COITUS IN ANO - Anal intercourse.

COITUS INTERRUPTUS - Withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation.

COLD - Unresponsive to sexual relations.

COME - To achieve sexual orgasm.

COME OUT - 1. To disclose one's own sexual identity to another. [I came out to my mother over Thanksgiving vacation.] 2. To discover that one's own sexual identity is different than previously assumed. [I came out to myself three months ago.] 3. To deal with one's own and others' reactions to the discovery or revelation of one's sexual identity. 4. (- for) To disclose another's sexual identity with their permission or at their request. [I asked my mother to come out to my grandparents for me.] 5. Sometimes applied to disclosure of other information than one's sexual identity.

CONDOM - Rubber sheath worn on the penis.

CONTINENCE - To refrain from sexual activity.

CORNHOLE - Anal intercourse.

CORONA- Rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of penis.

CRABS - Lice which infect the pubic area of the body.

CROSS-DRESSER - One (regardless of the motivation) who wears clothes, makeup, etc. which are considered (by the culture) appropriate for the other sex but not one's own.

CROTCH - Juncture of the thighs with the body; the genitals area.

CRUISE - The hunt for a sex partner.

CUNDRUM - A rubber sheathe worn on the penis.

CUNNILINGUS - Stimulating a woman's genitals with your mouth.

CUM - Semen.

CUNT - The vagina.

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DAISY CHAIN - A group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections.

DERRIERE - The buttocks.

DICK - The penis.

DIDDLE - To perform masturbation.

DOG - An unattractive person.

DOG FASHION - Sexual position used by canines.

DONG - The penis.

DOSE - Gonorrhea or other venereal disease.

DRAG (in drag) - 1. Clothes, often unusual or dramatic, especially those considered appropriate to the other sex. 2. Can be applied to any recognizable "look." [(to a man in a suit): I see you are in corporate drag today.] 3. In drag: Wearing clothes of the opposite sex.

DRAG QUEEN - A MtF transvestite who employs dramatic clothes, makeup, and mannerisms, often for other people's appreciation.

DRIVE IT HOME - Forceful intercourse.

DRY FUCK - Moving against on another, clothed. To simulate intercourse.

DYKE - A very tough lesbian; reclaimed derogatory slang.

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EASY - A person who needs little persuasion to perform sex acts.

EAT - To perform oral intercourse.

EFFEMINATE - Descriptive of a male who acts in a feminine manner.

EJACULATION - Discharge from the penis during sexual climax.

ERECTION - The sexual aroused state caused by a rush of blood into the veins and capillaries of the penis, coupled with a valve action which prevents its release, and further aided by the contraction of certain surface muscles on the penis, all of which combine to keep it in a hard and extended configuration until the stimuli is taken away or ejaculation occurs.

EUNUCH - A male who has had his testicles removed.

EXHIBITIONIST - A person who derives sexual gratification by displaying his body to others.

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FAGGOT - A male homosexual.

FAIRY - A male homosexual.

FAMILY JEWELS - The testicles.

FANNY - The buttocks.

FELLATIO - To kiss, nibble, lick or suck the penis.

FEMALE - A person who has a vagina.

FEMALE IMPERSONATOR (FI) - A male who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical feminine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.

FEMININE - The gender role assigned to females.

FEMME - 1. Feminine or effeminate dress and behavior, regardless of sex or gender identity. 2. A sub-identity of lesbian or gay, based on masculine or macho dress and behavior.

FETISH - An object or part of the body which is normally considered non-sexual but which arouses erotic feelings such as leather, rubber, fair, feet, panties, etc.

FETISHISTIC TRANSVESTITE - A transvestite who consistently eroticizes Cross Dressing. May also eroticize fantasies of gender/sex change.

FIFTH WHEEL - A heterosexual in a homosexual group.

FISH - A female.

FISTING - Inserting your entire hand into your partner's vagina or anus.

FLAGELLATION - Whipping or beating to sexual orgasm.

FRENCH - To perform oral intercourse.

FRUIT - A male homosexual.

FtM - Female to male. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change.

FULL HOUSE - Having more than one venereal disease at the same time.

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GANG BANG - Group sex where one is fucked consecutively by many.

GAY - One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of the same sex (as oneself), or who identifies as a member of the gay community. Sometimes refers only to gay males, sometimes only to gay males and lesbians. Although some people use the term gay (community) to refer to all sexual minorities (or the sexual minority community), Lesbians and Bisexuals often do not feel included by it. Derogatory slang includes: queer, faggot, swish.

GENDER IDENTITY - refers to how one thinks of one's own gender: whether one thinks of oneself as a man (masculine) or as a woman (feminine). A psychological gender role. Masculine or feminine. Gender (identity) community: People who identify as transvestite, transsexual, or transgendered, or as members of the gender community. Members of the gender community do not necessarily identify as members of the sexual minority community.

GENDER DYSPHORIA - Unhappiness or discomfort experienced by one whose sexual organs do not match one's gender identity.

GENDER NEUTRAL - Clothing, behaviors, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. which are considered appropriate for members of both sexes.

GENDER ROLE - Arbitrary rules, assigned by society, that define what clothing, behaviors, thoughts, feelings, relationships, etc. are considered appropriate and inappropriate for members of each sex. Some clothing, behaviors, etc. are considered appropriate for members of both sexes. Which things are considered masculine, feminine, or neutral varies according to location, class, occasion, and numerous other factors.

GENETIC BOY - Colloquial term for Genetic Male.

GENETIC MALE / MAN - One who was considered male from birth, regardless of one's present sex or gender identity.

GENETIC FEMALE / WOMAN - One who was born female, regardless of one's present sex or gender identity.

GENETIC GIRL - Colloquial term for Genetic Female.

GENITALS - The human reproductive organs.

GET IT UP - To achieve an erect penis.

GET SOME - To attain sexual intercourse with someone.

GET YOUR ROCKS OFF - To ejaculate.

GIRL - 1. A young female. 2. Colloquial term for feminine. Often used to specify gender of clothes. ["My girl clothes."] Girl has often been used as a condescending term for a woman, and is therefore distasteful to many people.

GIVE HEAD - To perform oral intercourse.

GLORY HOLE - An opening cut into the partition between two commode stalls in a men's restroom through which oral intercourse can be performed.

GO DOWN ON - To perform oral intercourse.

GOLDEN SHOWER - One person urinates on another for sexual pleasure.

GOOSE - Press a finger into the cleavage of the buttocks.

GREEK - To perform anal intercourse.

GROPE - To handle another's genitals.

G-STRING - A small brief worn over the genitals.

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HAND JOB - Masturbation, particularly at the hands of another.

HAND MADE - A large penis allegedly developed through masturbation.

HARD ON - An erect penis.

HARD UP - Lack of sexual activity and need for a sex partner.

HERMAPHRODITE - One who has both a penis and a vagina.

HETEROSEXUAL - One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of the other sex (than oneself). Derogatory terms include: breeder.

HETEROSEXISM - The assumption that identifying as heterosexual and having sexual and romantic attractions only to members of the other sex (than oneself) is good and acceptable, and that other sexual identities and attractions are bad and unacceptable. The assumption that anyone is straight whose sexual orientation is not known, usually coupled with a "blindness" to the existence and concerns of LesBiGays.

HOMOPHILE - Obsolete term for gay male.

HOMOPHOBIA - Originally, an irrational fear of sexual attraction to the same sex. Developed into a term for the oppression of Lesbians and Gay men, and later into a term for all aspects of the oppression of Lesbians, Gay men, and Bisexuals (sometimes does not include bisexuals.) This oppression ranges from not including LesBiGays in one's circle of friends and media reports on and representations of society, through the cold shoulder, snide comments, verbal harassment, assault, rape, and murder based on the target person's (perceived) sexual identity.

HOMOPHOBE - One who is afraid of or oppresses people because one (perceives them to) have sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex.

HOMOSEXUAL - Formal or clinical term for gay, usually meaning gay male, sometimes meaning LesGay, and occasionally meaning LesBiGay. Homosexual and homosexuality are often associated with the proposition that same gender attractions are a mental disorder (homophilia), and are therefore distasteful to some people.

HORMONE THERAPY - Used to change secondary sex characteristics, including breast size, weight distribution, and facial hair growth.

HORNY - Sexually aroused; passionate.

HORSE AROUND - To explore sexually without engaging in intercourse. 

HUNG - To describe the size of a large penis.

HUSTLER - Prostitute that searches for customers.

HOTPANTS -Sexually aroused.

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IMPOTENT - Unable to engage in sexual intercourse.

IDENTIFY / -IED (as) - To think of oneself as having a particular sexual identity or gender identity. [I identify as a bisexual. I am bi-identified.] To emphasize that an identity term refers to one's internal reality, as opposed to what others think or observe of one, self-identify is sometimes used.

IDENTITY - How one thinks of oneself. One's internal self, as opposed to what others observe or think about one.

INCEST - Sexual relations between family members.

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JACK OFF - To masturbate.

JAIL BATE - One who is under 18 years of age.

JERK OFF - To masturbate.

JOHN - One who financially supports another for sex favors.

JOINT - The penis.

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KICKS - Sexual thrills.

KNOCK OF A PIECE - To have sexual intercourse.

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LABEL - How someone else sees or thinks of one.

LACE CURTAINS - The foreskin of the penis.

LAVENDER - Pertaining to the homosexual lifestyle.

LAY - To perform sexual intercourse.

LESBIAN - A woman who has significant sexual and romantic attractions to members of the same sex, or who identifies as a member of the lesbian community. Bisexual women often do not feel included by this term. Derogatory slang: dyke, lesbo.

LesBiGay (community) - Contraction of "lesbian, bisexual, and gay." Colloquial term for the sexual minority community or its members. Often spelled with capital "B" and "G" to prevent misinterpretation as "lesbian and gay."LesGay: Contraction of "lesbian and gay." Sometimes used to mean LesBiGay, but bisexual women and men often do not feel included by this term.

LIBIDO - Sexual appetite.

LOAD - The fluid from an ejaculation.

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MAKE OUT - To succeed sexually.

MALE - A person who has a penis.

MALE IMPERSONATOR - A female who, on specific occasions, cross dresses and employs stereotypical masculine dialog, voice, and mannerisms for the entertainment of other people.

MARY - An effeminate-acting male.

MASOCHISM - Where sexual gratification is achieved by pain.

MASTURBATION - Manual manipulation of genitals.

MASCULINE - The gender role assigned to males.

MATINEE - A sex session in the afternoon.

MEAT - The penis.

MONO-GENDERED - One who is comfortable in only one gender role. (Do people actually use this, or is it just a syntactic extension of bigendered?)

MONO-SEXUAL - One who has significant sexual and romantic attractions primarily to members of one sex. Straight, Gay, Lesbian. Someone who is not Bisexual.

MtF - Male to female. Used to specify the direction of a sex or gender role change.

MUTUAL MASTURBATION - Where partners manipulate each other's genitals.

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NARCISSISM - One who is stimulated by one's own body.

NECK - To embrace, kiss and fondle.

NEUTER - 1. One who has neither a penis nor a vagina. 2. Occasionally used to mean androgynous.

NUTS - The testicles.

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OLD DIRT ROAD - Using the anus for intercourse.

OLD MAN - One who supports a younger sex partner.

ONE NIGHT STAND - A sexual affair between two or more people who will probably never see each other again.

ONE WAY - Will perform only one type of sexual activity.

ORAL INTERCOURSE - A sexual activity whereby the mouth of one person is used in connection with the sexual organs of another person to produce sexual gratification.

ORGASM - The peak of sensation during sexual activity.

OTHER SEX / GENDER - The other sex or gender than the reference person's own. [She has an other sex partner (than her own sex).] [Are you currently in a relationship with a member of the same sex (as yourself)?]  

(to be) OUT - To be open about one's sexual identity with someone or in a situation. [I am out to my mother.] [I am out at work.] Out [someone]: 1. To disclose a second person's sexual identity to a third person, especially without the second person's permission. 2. To disclose one's own sexual identity, sometimes without choosing to do so. [I outed myself by leaving a political letter on my desk, which my boss saw when he was looking for me.]

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PANSY - A male homosexual.

PASSIVE - The fuckee.

PEARL DIVER - One who performs oral sex on the penis.

PECKER - The penis.

PEDERASTY - Insertion of the penis into the anus.

PEDOPHILIA - Sexual love of a child by an adult.

PEEPING TOM - A voyeur.

PENIS - The male sex organ consisting of head, shaft and base.

PERINEUM - The area between the anus and the testicles, anus and vagina.

PERVERT - One who receives sexual gratification from kinky sex acts.

PETER - The penis.

PHALLUS - The penis.

PICKUP - Stranger who is induced to go elsewhere for sex.

PISS HARD ON - An erect penis caused by the need to urinate.

POCKET POOL - Masturbating through pants pocket.

POKE - To engage in sexual intercourse.

PRE-CUM JUICE - Natural lube which oozes from the penis.

Pre-operative transsexual (Pre-op TS) - One who is actively planning to switch physical sexes, mostly to relieve gender dysphoria. Probably, but not necessarily, cross dresses, takes hormone therapy, and gets electrolysis.

PRIMARY SEX ORGANS - Penis (male) or vagina (female).

PRO - A prostitute.

PROSTATE - Glands at base of urethra which eject semen.

PT - A prick teaser.

PUNK - A male prostitute.

PUSHOVER - Easily persuaded to engage in sex.

PUSSY - Vagina.

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QUEEN - An effeminate male homosexual.

QUEER - 1. Reclaimed derogatory slang for the sexual minority community (eg. Queer Nation) Not accepted by all the sexual minority community, especially older members. 2. Sometimes used for an even wider spectrum of marginalized or radicalized groups and individuals.

QUICKIE - A very brief sex act.

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RAPE - Forcibly perform sexual intercourse.

RECTUM - The tube between the colon and the anus.

RIM - To use the tongue on the anus.

ROD - The penis.

RUBBER - A condom.

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SADISM - Sexual stimulation associated with the desire to inflict pain, physical or mental on another.

SADOMASOCHISM - Both sadism and masochism existing in the same person.

SAME-SEX / GENDER - The same sex or gender as the reference person's own.

SCORE - To achieve sexual intercourse.

SCROTUM - The pouch or sac with contains the testicles.

SEA FOOD - A sailor as a sex object.

SEMEN - The fluid produced during ejaculation of the male.

SEX - Male or female, depending on one's primary sex organs.

SEXUAL IDENTITY - How one thinks of oneself in terms of whom one is sexually and romantically attracted to, specifically whether one is attracted to members of the same gender as one's own or the other gender than one's own.

SEXUAL ORIENTATION / PREFERENCE - How one thinks of her/himself, in terms of being significantly attracted to members the same or the other sex. Sexual orientation emphasizes that some people feel that one has no control or influence over the development of one's sexual and romantic attractions or one's sexual orientation. Sexual preference emphasizes that some people feel that one does or should have some control or influence over the development of one's sexual and romantic attractions or sexual one's orientation.

SEXUAL REASSIGNMENT SURGERY (SRS) - A surgical procedure which changes one's primary sexual organs from one sex to another (penis to vagina or vagina to penis.) SRS is the colloquial for Sexual Reassignment Surgery.

SHOOT - To achieve orgasm.

SIXTY-NINE - Genital oral intercourse performed on each other simultaneously by two partners.

SMEGMA - White matter which collects under the foreskin of the penis.

SODOMY - The insertion of the penis into the anus.

SPERM - The fluid that erupts from the penis during ejaculation.

STALLION - A male who possesses a very large penis.

STRAIGHT - Colloquial for heterosexual. Because straight has connotations of "unadulterated," "pure," and "honest," some members of the sexual identity community object to the implication that one who is not straight is "bent," "adulterated," "impure," or "dishonest." Straight has connotations of "narrow," "straight-laced" or "conservative," and some heterosexual-identified people object find it distasteful.

STUD - A male who is in great demand as a sex partner.

SUCK OFF - To perform oral intercourse on the penis.

SUGAR DADDY - A man who keeps a younger person for sexual favors.

SWINGER - One who accepts free love.

SWISH - A male who behaves in a feminine manner.

SWITCH HITTER - A bi-sexual.

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TEA ROOM - A public men's rest room.

TESTICLES - The male reproductive glands.

THIRD SEX - Homosexuals tongue.

TONGUE (VERB) - To perform oral intercourse.

TOOLBOX - The male genitals.

TRADE - A passive male prostitute who caters to homosexuals.

TRANSGENDER (COMMUNITY) - Formal term for gender community.

TRANSGENDERED (TG) - One who switches gender roles, whether just once, or many times at will. Inclusive term for transsexuals and transvestites.

TRANSSEXUAL (TS) - One who switches physical sexes (usually just once, but there are exceptions.) Primary sex change is accomplished by surgery. Hormone therapy, electrolysis, additional surgery, and other treatments can change secondary sex characteristics.

TRANSVESTITE (TV) - One who mainly cross dresses for pleasure in the appearance and sensation. The pleasure may not be directly erotic. It may be empowering, rebellious, or something else. May feel comfortable in a focused transgender role while cross dressed. May occasionally experience gender dysphoria.

TRICK - A sex partner.

TURN A TRICK - To take on a sex partner for money.

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URETHRA - Duct which carries urine and semen.

UROLAGNIA - Sexual pleasure from watching another drink urine.

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VACUUM CLEANER - One who applies great suction during oral sex.

VAGINA - Orifice of female sex organs.

VANILLA SEX - Any non-kinky sex acts.

VERSATILE - Bi-sexual.

VIRILTY - The sexual power and capacity of a male lover.

VOYEUR - One who gains sexual satisfaction from watching others undressing or engaged in sexual acts.

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WATER SPORTS - Sex play involving urine. Also called piss play.

WHAM BAM - Rapid and hurried sexual activity.

WIENER - The penis.

WORK OFF - To masturbate.

WORK UP - To create passion of to be passionate.

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