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Beliefs about the Nature of Homosexuality

The two most extreme belief systems about homosexuality are explained below. It is important to realize that many -- perhaps most -- North Americans hold beliefs that are intermediate between these two viewpoints:

Homosexuality

 

 

 

The most Conservative view (typically promoted by the main conservative Christian organizations)

The most Liberal view (typically followed by  religious liberals, gays, lesbians, mental health professionals and human sexuality researchers)
What it is? Something that one does; a chosen lifestyle. Something that one is; an unchosen orientation.
What causes it?

 

Poor parenting sets up the individual. Addiction traps them in the lifestyle. Demon possession may be involved. Genetically predetermined plus some unknown environmental factor in early childhood
At what age does it become obvious in an individual? Teenage years, after puberty when it is chosen. Homosexual orientation can be detected in pre-school children.
Is it sinful? Yes. It is more serious than many other sins. It endangers the family It is not inherently sinful, if it is safe, consensual and within a committed relationship.
Is it natural and normal? It is an unnatural, deviant behavior. It is normal and natural, for a minority of humans.
What should a homosexual do? Remain celibate. Choose either celibacy or monogamy with a same-sex partner.
God's attitude Loves the sinner; hates homosexuality which is always sinful. Loves the person; approves of the relationship if it is based on love.
Is it changeable? Yes, through counseling and prayer. But it requires effort because it is so addictive. No. Sexual orientation is fixed.
Is reparative therapy effective? Yes; an effective method to changing homosexuals into heterosexuals It is a useless, ineffective, and potentially dangerous therapy.
Are anti-discrimination laws beneficial? No. It would grant them special privileges, and encourage more youth to become gay. Yes. They are a heavily discriminated-against minority in need of protection.
What happens to children of gays and lesbians? A large percentage will become homosexuals. The vast majority of their children will be heterosexual -- apparently more accepting and less judgmental than average.
Should gays be allowed to marry? No. Gay marriages threaten regular families Yes. To be allowed to marry is a fundamental civil right.
Should gays be eligible for ordination? No. It would be a major lowering of standards. Yes. One's orientation has no bearing on the ability to be a priest, minister or pastor.

 

Varieties of Sexual Orientations

Some people believe that there are only two sexual orientations (feelings of sexual attraction):

Heterosexual a person who is sexually attracted only to members of the opposite gender,
Homosexual a person who is sexually attracted only to members of the same gender.

 

This is not a useful model, because it ignores two minorities:

Asexuals people who have feelings of sexual attraction to neither gender
Bisexuals people who are attracted (perhaps to different degrees) to both genders

 

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